Sharing is Caring

S1E7 - Getting our Kink on

Dabbling into BDSM and Kink

2 years ago

Dabbling into BDSM and Kink

Welcome to Episode 7 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode we talk about our recent experience with Cherie taking on a dominant role and how much we enjoyed the (new for us) experience.

Main topic

For the main topic, we start to explore Kink and BDSM. Disclaimer: We are new to Kink and BDSM, so probably make mistakes! But that's why this is our journey.

Since we are new to kink, we first define several terms using BDSM Wiki definitions: We then discuss our limited experience and what we have tried, followed by discussing a list of the top 10 most common kinks in the UK (as per a LoveHoney survery from 2017). Finally, we compare our results from the BDSM test -

Listener Question

We answer a question about grooming in the lifestyle and how pubic hair is received.

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  • Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0)

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