Sharing is Caring

S1E21 - Public Displays of Affection

When on dates in public places or at vanilla events, what’s your view on public displays of affection/interaction outside your couple? How do some people react?

When on dates in public places or at vanilla events, what’s your view on public displays of affection/interaction outside your couple? How do some people react?

Welcome to Episode 21 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode we catchup on what we have been doing lately, including a couple dates, another trip to Rios and some sexy fun with Mew right after we finished recording last episode.

We also discuss public displays of affection / interaction outside your couple in a vanilla setting. We have had several occasions where people have reacted in different ways, ranging from staring and reacting badly, to being intrigued and asking questions.

We discuss some questions including: - People's reactions - What happens if people recognise you? - What's the impact on work? - What can you do to feel more comfortable - What do we feel comfortable doing? - What influences whether or not we are happy with PDA

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S1E20 - Interview with a Unicorn

Getting to know Mew better

In this episode we interview Mew and get to know her a bit better and learn about the lifestyle from the perspective of a unicorn.

Welcome to Episode 20 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

Mew is a good friend who is also a unicorn. In this episode we speak with her and hear about the lifestyle from her perspective. Mew answers questions about what the positives? what have been great experiences? As well as discussing some of the difficulties and downsides of being a unicorn.

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  • Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0)

Keep being amazing and sexy x

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S1E19 - 2019 - The year in review

With bonus French swinging vocabulary

In this episode we recap what we did in 2019 and discuss French swinging vocabulary

Welcome to Episode 19 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this bonus episode we look back at our year in review and answer the following 10 reflection questions about out year swinging: 1. What will you remember 2019 for? 2. What worked great this year? 3. What are you proud of? 4. What was your biggest challenge? 5. What did you learn about yourself? 6. Which word describes your last year the best? 7. Who needs to be acknowledged? 8. What’s something you would have like to have done in 2019 but didn’t? 9. Other than time and money, what do you want more of in New year? 10. Stepping into the New year, what is calling you and seducing you? (What will you do about it?)

Cherie also discussed some french swinging Vocabulary: - Swinging: Echangisme / libertinage - Soft swap: Melangisme - Having sex next to each other: Côte-à-côtisme - Threesomes: Triolisme /Plan a 3 - Sex clubs: Club échangiste - club libertin - Polyamory: Polyamour - Penetration: Pénétration - Voyeurism: Voyeurisme - Exhibitionism: Exhibitionisme - Orgy: Orgie / partouze - BDSM: SM - Porn: Porno / film X - Vibrator: Vibromasseur - Dildo: gode - Sex toys: Sex toys - Lube: lubrifiant - Strap-on: Gode-ceinture - Squirting: femme fontaine

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Happy new year you sexy people!

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S1E18 - Drinking too much at a Killing Kittens Hedonism party

Being Submissive, going back to Rios and dealing with rude people

Drinking too much at a Killing Kittens Hedonism party - Being submissive, returnign to Rios and dealing with rude people

Welcome to Episode 18 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode we discuss attending a Killing Kittens Hedonism party, where Cherie drank a bit too much. This lead so some interesting situations and some good lessons learned!

In our catchup we talk about a friend coming to stay and her finding her dominant side, and going back to Rios with a group of friends!

We also address the listener question(s): I'm really interested in getting into the lifestyle, but I'm petrified to take the first steps. How soft can a soft swap be? Does it have to involve oral or can you just kiss and caress? Are you always expected to give oral if you have received? Would you suggest trying a threesome first or having sex in front of people in a sexy atmosphere?

Killing Kittens website: www.killingkittens.com

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Have an great day and love you all xx

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S1E17 - Being Sexual while living with Vaginismus

An interview with Ramona about living with Vaginismus

An interview with Ramona about living with Vaginismus

Welcome to Episode 17 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode we are joined by our good friend, Ramona, who shares her experience of being a sexual person who is living with the condition Vaginismus.

Ramona discusses what Vaginismus is and how it has impacted her life in various ways, both inside and outside the bedroom.

Links:

Ramona Twitter: @NotSheath The Vaginismus Network: https://www.thevaginismusnetwork.com/ Sh! Womans Store: https://www.sh-womenstore.com Dialator: https://www.sh-womenstore.com/sh-vibrating-silicone-vaginismus-set.html

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Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xx

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S1E16 - Swinging Without Swinging - What happens when you can't play?

Our experience swinging when we couldn't play.

Our experience swinging when we couldn't play.

Welcome to Episode 16 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

Life has been very busy lately and we haven't had the time to record! Rather than waiting longer, we decided to record and release a shorter episode, we hope you enjoy it!

In this episode we recount our experience from a year ago when, due to a medical surprise, Cherie couldn't play. We discuss how we handled our existing invites and what we decided to do in the end.

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  • Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0)

Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xx

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S1E15 - Bisexual Visibility Day

Crossover with Bedhoppers for Bi Visibility Day

Special cross-over episode with Bedhoppers for Bisexual visibility day!

Welcome to Episode 15 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this special episode, we are joined by our Friends Mr. and Mrs. H from Bedhoppers (@bedhoppersUK), and Lord Voldemort and Vanilla Ice (@HisCockHerTail) in London for a discussion about Bisexuality and bi visibility.

Getting Bi song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77Is

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S1E14 - Cap d'Agde Diaries 2019 - Part 2

We recount the final 3 days of our time in Cap d'Agde

The final three days of our trip to Cap d'Agde

Welcome to Episode 14 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

This episode is a part 2 of Cap d'Agde Diaries 2019, if you haven't listened to part 1, we recommend going back and listening to Episode 13 first.

We just got back from our trip to Cap d’Agde for just over a week. Every day we recorded a few minutes about what we had been up to the previous day, so the thoughts were fresh in our mind. Unfortunately, we didn't get to record during the final three days, but we made notes and recorded once we got back to London.

We also recorded a small section where we reflect on what went well, and what we would do differently next time.

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We enjoyed Cap d'Agde so much that we have booked to go back again at the end of this week with a friend! If you will be there between Friday 6th September and Monday 9th September, get in touch!

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Love you all xx

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S1E13 - Cap d'Agde Diaries 2019 - Part 1

The first six days of our swinger vacation in Cap d'Agde

The first six days of our trip to Cap d'Agde

Welcome to Episode 13 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

This episode is a bit different, we just got back from our trip to Cap d’Agde for just over a week. Every day we recorded a few minutes about what we had been up to the previous day, so the thoughts were fresh in our mind.

After looking at all the recordings, the episode was going to be really long, so we’ve decided to release it as two episodes in a couple of days.

Our trip was quite different than expected, not only because we lost a couple days to getting sick in the middle, but because we ended up making so many great friends. The focus really naturally shifted to meeting people and building relationships above the sex.

We did also manage to arrange a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!

We enjoyed Cap d'Agde so much that we have booked to go back again next week with a friend! If you will be there between Friday 6th September and Monday 9th September, get in touch!

It’s a bit rough we were in our hotel room and it’s as much for our own memories as anything else. The recording quality isn’t the best and there is some background noise, but we hope you enjoy it.

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  • Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0)

Love you all xx

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S1E12 - Party Sandwich: A mixed experience

Being yelled at by security, Preparing for Cap, and transitioning to play time

Being yelled at by security, Preparing for Cap, and transitioning to play time

Welcome to Episode 12 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!

We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode we continue our journey and talk about our second Fever party!

For our catchup, we talk about starting to pack for Cap d'Agde, seeing Mew again, and Cherie considers getting her nipple(s) pierced

Main topic

In our journey continues with a mixed night at Fever. We have a great night, but it is soured by something bad at the end. We talk about how important the events surrounding a party are to add to the experience.

We then discuss what we have learnt from our last trip to Cap d'Agde and what we will do differently this time.

Listener Question

We answer a question from Fab Swingers: "We are new to the lifestyle and have been on two meets so far. Both were a lot of fun, but it took a long time for us to get the courage to move from talking to play time and it didn’t really feel natural. Do you have any suggestions on how to make this shift easier and more natural?"

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  • Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0)

Love you all xx

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